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What would happen if you dedicated one weekend to the renewal and regeneration of your relationship? or, if you are single, to prepare yourself for your next relationship? Most people don’t realize that the quality of our relationships = the quality of our lives. There is a direct correlation between a person’s level of happiness, success, financial prosperity, overall wellbeing and their primary relationship. And ones primary relationship influences and often sets the tone for all other relationships in life... At work, partners, friends, clients etc. IT ALSO DETERMINES HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE FINANCIALLY. I have given this a lot of thought - before sitting down to write this... Because the subject of relationship can be a hot potato (especially sex & money.) It is very near to my heart and I feel very strongly that there isn't enough quality education and support available in this area (especially for leaders.) My own experience has taught me that when my partner isn't happy - there is no way I am going to be happy (and visa versa.) The question is what to do about it? The purpose of this message is to answer that question in as short a form as possible, and to give you some options, insights and ideas... Most people have a very difficult time admitting that there is even a problem - and certainly haven't gone to anyone for support. Many of us are lacking inspiring role models of successful relationships - and rely on the examples of our parents and other family members. Often when we compare our relationship to that of our parents we feel lucky and in many ways better off (or our relationship is exactly the same as theirs)... However, this does not mean that we are realizing our full potential in this area - and with a little training, coaching and support - can enjoy a true partnership where both parties are totally fulfilled and any issues can be quickly and easily resolved. Unfortunately the opposite is often the case...  Small issues that remain unresolved fester, get suppressed and gnaw away at the harmony... Only to explode into a chasm at the smallest provocation. And many of these differences have a huge impact on ones life... For example differences or lack of alignment around money, how to make it, how to spend it, financial planning, investing, budgeting and the future. What if one partner earns many times more than the other? Not to mention how this affects the children (if there are any.) What if one partner is controlling and making all the decisions? Speaking of children... Many people don't realize that yelling, arguing and the silent treatment are exactly the same and have an equally devastating impact on children.  It is very difficult to enjoy a fulfilling life or career when one partner does not agree with or support the other partners choices. What is possible if both parties are in full alignment - or at least have the tools to reach a resolution? What would life be like? What if making money and creating wealth were an inspired activity that flows from the harmony between two people?  One technique many people use to get what they want is to set their expectations so low - that they are guaranteed to meet them. This way they avoid disappo intment and over time settle for less and less. The key to having a inspiring and fulfilling life is exactly the opposite... To set expectations HIGH and to change what is in the way of realizing the highest ideal scenario. Having high expectations requires work... It requires learning... It requires letting go of the past... However the benefits are well worth it - I promise!
Regardless of your background, experience, social position or age... It is totally possible to heal any rift in a relationship (as long as both parties are willing) and to move into the Greenzone, Bluezone and ultimately the Goldzone. If you are single... It is also possible to attract the relationship of your dreams - sooner rather than later. Anjou and I have been on a lifelong quest for the ultimate relationship... A partnership between two equals who share a common purpose, vision, alignment of values, commitment to ideal scene, (in our case working together in the same business,) willingness, skills and knowledge to resolve differences. The journey has not been easy. But it has been the most worthwhile and fulfilling thing we have done. In the process we have developed some unique and highly effective tools, strategies and a knowledge base that can support others to realize their wildest relationship dreams. The entire Goldzone Organization is a byproduct of this journey. In addition to creating the organization together, our work with couples was integral to the development of the Optima Zones and the current Goldzone Curriculum of Programs. Join us for a weekend of fun, excitement, joy and laughter... (ok, sometimes it isn't fun - however this is never our intention :-)
Anjou and I will be leading the 3-Day Weekend titled Goldzone Relationship. This weekend is about getting from where you are now - to where you want to be in an ideal scene. We will look in-depth at what an ideal relationship looks like and what this will take. The sessions are designed to give you information, tools and strategies to create what you want - and education to describe how you created your relationships to be the way they are, who your role models have been, your unconscious behaviors, your money patterns, your buttons and triggers and much, much more. More than just theory, you will learn how to resolve upsets quickly and easily, how to align and reach agreement around money, investments and expenses, and most important you will be immersed in the experience... And wont forget it! The Weekend is conducted in the Singapore Goldzone Center - and we go all out to create a magical environment that is nothing like what you have experienced so far... During the Weekend we will look at and begin to clear hidden expectations and the resulting feelings around partnership and money, then learn how to implement a new system and financial management structure. This opens up more choices in how you work in partnership with to give you true freedom on all levels.
SOME OF WHAT WE WILL COVER INCLUDES:
HERE ARE JUST SOME OF THE BENEFITS:
The Weekend sessions are interactive with a mixture of educational content, exercises and debriefing. Hours are typically 10:00am to 9:00pm.
WHO SHOULD ATTEND?
Participation is limited to graduates of the Goldzone Leadership Experience... [ register today ]
I look forward to seeing you soon.
Andrew John Harrison P.S. Ongoing support is available via Optima Coaching (one-on-one,) Optima Weekends (with a group,) and the 7-Day Relationship Week held annually in Bali.
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